Abstract: As AI becomes increasingly ubiquitous, modern AI systems are shaped by a tight software-hardware co-design loop. Later GPUs expose features such as asynchronous data movement, tensor core pipelines, and fine-grained synchronization that high-performance kernels aggressively exploit, while emerging application behaviors increasingly influence the next generation of hardware design. Unfortunately, the latest open-source simulators for NVIDIA GPUs focus on architectures and software stacks from roughly six years ago. Therefore, they cannot support many state-of-the-art AI kernels generated by modern compiler stacks, e.g. Triton, or accurately model the hardware features they depend on. As a result, architects lack a credible platform for analyzing bottlenecks in this flywheel or evaluating design trade-offs for future AI systems. To bridge this gap, we present FlashGPU-sim, an open-source, execution-driven, cycle-accurate GPU simulator for modern AI workloads. FlashGPU-sim faithfully models modern hardware features such as asynchronous data movement, fine-grained synchronization, tensor-core execution, and distributed shared memory. A Triton extraction front-end allows direct simulation of optimized AI operators without manual porting, while multi-threaded execution makes large-scale software-hardware co-design practical. Across 131 workload configurations on RTX 5090, H100, and B200, FlashGPU-sim achieves a cycle-level MAPE of 5.24%, while multi-threaded simulation reaches a 7.86x speedup with 16 host threads. An H100 case study further demonstrates its utility for microarchitectural design exploration.