Abstract: As autonomous vehicles and Extended Reality (XR) headsets enable novel in-car interactions, seamlessly querying physical landmarks, known as Outside-the-Vehicle Referencing (OVR), remains challenging due to ego-motion and referential ambiguity. We present a robust, multimodal OVR framework fusing user gaze and natural language to identify Points of Interest (POIs). To address the scarcity of dynamic vehicular data, we developed a VR-based pipeline synchronizing 360-degree transit videos with vehicle GNSS telemetry. Through a user study (N=46) mapping passenger head orientation into a 3D geospatial Digital Twin, we captured authentic gaze-speech behaviors. We subsequently trained a lightweight Transformer network, leveraging LLMs to dynamically align continuous spatial gaze vectors with discrete verbal context. Experimental results demonstrate high accuracy and low computational overhead, achieving an 83.33% Top-1 accuracy (87.72% Top-2) and an average inference time of 24.3 milliseconds. This real-time paradigm effectively resolves referential ambiguity, enabling context-aware spatial retrieval for passengers within the vehicle.